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People support what they help
build.
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Being in a position of authority
does not bestow knowledge,
wisdom or leadership.
Those assets are purchased by
paying attention to others with
curiosity and bringing out the
best in them.
- What gets measured gets
done. Measure twice and cut
once.
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Consensus
occurs when everyone on a
team understands a proposal and
expresses a willingness to
support it --
not that they necessarily agree
that it's the best possible
course of action. Operating by
consensus produces more
effective solutions than a
dominance-submission process as
long as there's an effective
culture for sharing information
openly, questioning assumptions,
discussing team processes,
honoring all participants, and
resolving conflicts. Without
consensus, team members are
operating out of alignment,
blind to the covert
disagreements that have not been
put on the table for discussion
and resolution.
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"Conflicts arise as the result
of conversations that are not
happening." –John Gottman,
PhD
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A conflict that emerges from
expression of diverse points of
view is a natural, healthy
occurrence in the course of an
evolving relationship, not
something to be avoided.
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An effective team has an
agreed method of escalating
decisions when consensus has
stalled as a result of "the
tyranny of a minority" blocking
resolution.
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Every voice has a place in
the choir -- even the
disagreeable ones.
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Being accountable for
our intentions as well as our
results demonstrates and builds
maturity. In fact, no
matter what we may like to
think, our colleagues can sense
our intentions, so we may as
well own them publicly.
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Defensiveness is a business
cost. We enhance our awareness
of our own defenses and their
consequence to us, to our team,
and to the company. *
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We're most effective when
we're self-aware. I know
my strengths and weaknesses.
I am aware of the parts of me
that work well with others. I am aware of my defensive parts
and what
parts I am defending -- i.e.,
what feelings I'm resisting
feeling and
disowning. I am aware of
how my inner parts and personal
issues affect my behavior and my workplace. *
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Decisions and agreements are
accountable communications that
are important enough to be
captured and recorded in an
accessible journal of
significant events.
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We promote openness in our
communications. I can find out
how you feel about me, about my
work, and about what it's like
for you to work with me anytime
I want to know. We do not
withhold from one another. We
ask straight questions, and we
give straight answers. When I'm
doing something that reduces
your comfort or effectiveness,
you inform me at the time.
Resentment does not grow. *
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Communication occurs
when the message received is
equal to the message intended.
Without objective feedback
about what message was received,
one can not assume communication
has occurred.
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When the receiver is off, any
effort to send a message is, at
best, wasted.
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When sending an
intended message does not result
in the reception of an
equivalent message, there's
probably a resonance problem in
the dynamic between the sender
and receiver or an absence of
appropriate attention to the
communication on one side or the
other or both. In any
case, when both parties bring
creative attention to the
matter, success is assured.
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Expression of a diversity of
ideas, styles and preferences is
a powerful process
for raising capability maturity
and having more fun at work
when it's managed
effectively. This requires:
- treating all participants'
contributions, thoughts and
opinions as being worthy of
equal consideration and
listening for understanding
- embracing conflict when
it occurs
- addressing conflict as a
win-win opportunity for a
higher level of integration
of the team's energies
rather than as an
unpleasant win-lose battle
of wills or egos that must
be avoided
- providing facilitation and
coaching when
individuals are conflicting
without immediate resolution
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Accountability imposed on an
individual or a team (as a
parent would assign a chore to a
child) without an
unqualified commitment to
support their success is an
unbalanced dynamic that will
erode the capability maturity of
the person or the team.
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“People
don’t resist change. They resist
being changed.” –George
Land, Leadership 2000
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The more familiar an idea or
a process seems, the less likely
it is to trigger an immune
response.
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Questioning our own assumptions
is one of the most difficult and
uncomfortable skills required to
achieve excellence, and there is
no substitute for it.
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We are self-determinant.
When we are involved in a
project, there is no question
about who is accountable for its
success. Everyone is 100%
responsible for their experience
and their contribution. Blame
does not exist. We deal
directly with our differences.
We see how each of us is
contributing to the problem or
situation, and we identify how
each of us will contribute to
the solution. *
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We apply the principles of
systems thinking (inputs,
processes, outputs, feedback) to
our work and to understanding
ourselves and our team dynamics.
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We minimize rework by
planning ahead, adopting
standards, coordinating our
efforts, questioning
assumptions, and sharing
knowledge.
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“Handle the difficult, while
it is still easy.” –Lao Tsu
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Whirled
peas begins in each person's own
art. (We don't take ourselves
too seriously.)
Team Analytics Consulting provides
training for teams through
The Teamwork Shop, which
focuses on these activities:
- aligning to serve a
shared vision – a set of
values, a common purpose,
and a common process
- embracing a diversity of
styles and ideas
- affirming the equal
value of participants’
contributions
- managing roles & group
dynamics
- managing communication
processes
- creating mutual support
among interdependent
participants
- learning together
See also http://www.coachinc.com/images/coachinc/guidingprinciples/guiding_printable3.jpg.
* Derived from http://www.bartonwhite.com/act_overview.htm. |